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Donna's Daily Diary ~ A peek into what happens on a daily basis at Perfectly Matched

May 16, 2012

May 17th, 2012, 3:36 pm by

I was walking across the street today on my way to lunch and I noticed this couple walking towards me, smiling from ear to ear, and holding hands. I quickly realized it was a couple I had matched. After all the hugs and hellos, they told me they were celebrating their one year anniversary. She and I have talked a few times over the past year but I could not believe an entire year has passed since I matched them.

 

I said “You two make a great looking couple and you seem so happy!” He said “We ARE!” and squeezed her hand.

She said “We owe it all to you!” This lady was a client for five years before he walked through my door, and she was his first match. She had a couple of relationships during that time, but she never gave up, and neither did I. He was just plain lucky! Needless to say, it made my day.

 

 

My first appointment today is a man, mid 50’s, divorced, grown children, his long term goal is a serious, committed relationship which could include marriage. He is a good looking, tall, Hispanic man and he would love to meet a Hispanic lady.

 

He said “I would love to meet a Hispanic lady. My pervious relationships have always been with Caucasian ladies, and I am very open to also meeting Caucasian ladies, but I have always thought it would be great to fall in love with a Hispanic lady.”

 

He is very active, does the Manitou Incline every week! He also hikes a couple of times a week, lifts weights, mountain bikes and enjoys camping.

 

His age preference for a lady is 50 to 60. I told him it is refreshing that he will date someone a few years older than himself.

He said “If I find her attractive, and she can keep up with me, age does not matter.” I told him he took the words right out of my mouth.

 

He is a very likable fellow, really easy to talk to, comfortable to be around, and he has a fabulous smile.

 

He is going to come back on the 25th to sign up and I look forward to working with him. The ladies are going to love him!

 

 

I just had a phone call from a fellow who is 30 years old and separated from a ten year marriage. I asked him who was choosing to end the marriage and he said “She is.”

I said “I could tell that by the tone of your voice.” He is so not ready to date, although he wants to because she is dating already.

I said “First of all, you have to file for divorce before I can even offer you membership, and secondly, this really works better when the divorce is a done deal.”

When I asked him how he heard about my service he said “I remember my wife telling me she belonged to your service about ten years ago.”

I said “What is your wife’s name?” When he told me, I knew exactly who she was because her interview with me was on September 11, 1991. She was only 20 years old and she was the only one who did not cancel her appointment that day. Funny how that instantly came back to me.

 

To be continued……….

Please visit my website at www.perfectlymatcheddating.com

May 15, 2012

May 15th, 2012, 10:24 pm by

I have been so busy with my new ad campaign which started today with new radio ads on KKLI, 106.3 from 6am to 10am and 4pm to 6pm, and the new wall ads to be seen soon in a restroom near you. People tease me about the wall ads, but after referral business, they are my second best score of new leads. There will be a new ad in the Gazette in the “GO” section Friday and I have a new logo and tagline. The new tagline is “Love Happens Here”. This is the first time in 21 years I have had an advertising agency help me and I love what they are doing. The company is PROPEL (www.propeladvertising.com) and a client referred me to them. Next they will be doing a new website for Perfectly Matched and I can’t wait to see it!

 

Donna’s Daily Dairy got put on the backburner last week and tonight I finally have time to write about some of the new clients who joined Perfectly Matched last week.

 

Last week was Mother’s Day, but it was all men at Perfectly Matched. In addition to the man I wrote about on May 8th, these are the other men who are now new clients:

 

  1. A man, early 50’s, divorced, highly educated, he has grown children and grade school children, and his long term goal is marriage. I really like this man. After two divorces, he knows with the right lady he would like to be married again. He is traditional and loved being married. He came to me to increase his odds of never being divorced again. He was very surprised by how much I knew about him from the 46 question profile test he took. He is quick to smile, very genuine and down to earth.

 

He said “I can see how meeting someone whose scores are compatible with mine will mean that I will meet someone who thinks much the same as I do in all these areas of compatibility. I have taken and given many personality profile tests and I cannot believe how much you know about me from just 46 questions.”

 

I said “I believe in this test. I have been using it for 23 years, and it just cannot be a coincidence that the couples who continue to have success are the couples who have the most compatible scores.”

 

He enjoys tennis, hockey, spectator sports, concerts, musicals, and travel. He loves children and will be a great role model and mentor.

 

When I asked him what was important as far as physical attraction, instead of immediately saying “not overweight”, as most men do, he said “I really like nice legs.” He laughed and seemed a little embarrassed, and I said “It’s OK, I’ve heard it all, and in general, men are either leg men or breast men. I have been told that leg men are usually more intelligent.”

 

He said “Do you find that to be true?”

I said “Yes!”

 

I have some great matches for him and we have already agreed who the first one will be.

 

 

  1. A man, late 30’s, educated, ABS, his long term goal is marriage and children. His sister told him to call me. Over the years, some of my favorite male clients have been the ones whose sisters sent them in my direction.

 

He said “She is tired of being my dating coach, and says I never listen to her. That I keep attracting what she calls drama girls, mama girls and let me get in your pajama girls.” I like his sister already.

He is very good looking and has a bit of an problem with the idea that he has come to see a matchmaker.

He said “I don’t have any trouble meeting girls.”

I said “I can easily believe that, but you must not be meeting the right girls or else we would not be sitting here having this conversation.”

 

When we finished the interview he said “Donna, anyone can sound good on paper. What do they look like?”

Although I don’t usually show pictures, I know when I have to do it to make someone believe I have the type of person they are looking for. I showed him three pictures of the women I had talked to him about and he said “Why would someone who looks like this come to a dating service?”

I said “You’re here.”

 

Touché…..I just got his sister’s job.

 

 

  1. The final man last week, is mid 40’s, divorced, self employed, no children, and his long term goal is a serious, committed, monogamous relationship which does not include marriage.

 

He said “Marriage is an antiquated institution which should be abolished.”

I said “Why don’t you tell me how you really feel about it?” He laughed, but he has strong feelings about all the pitfalls of marriage. His parents, all of his siblings, and most of his friends are divorced. He has been through so much of the conflict with them that he truly believes marriage is the worst thing you can do if you want a relationship to last.

He said “It takes much more of a commitment to stay together because it is what both of you want, rather than because you signed a piece of paper which ultimately gives one person the advantage.”

His scores are nontraditional and not religious, so his chances of me finding a lady who will be comfortable with his ideas are good.

 

He loves to travel, especially out of the country, and go away for weeks, even months, at a time. He prefers to meet a lady who has the flexibility to join him.

He said “I don’t mind paying for both of us. I can afford it, and if she is a good travel companion, I am more than happy to pay for everything.”

 

He also enjoys the arts, museums are on the top of the list wherever he travels. He loves to read, cook, garden and his passion is running. He has done the Pikes Peak Ascent many times, and a number of marathons.

 

He is tall and thin and he prefers a lady who is tall and thin. Someone who also runs would be ideal.

 

He said “I want my next relationship to be my last relationship and I am counting on you to make that happen.”

 

No pressure here! I will, of course, do my best!

 

One week, four men…where are the ladies???!!!!

 

To be continued………

Please visit my website at www.perfectlymatcheddating.com

May 8, 2012

May 10th, 2012, 1:20 pm by

My first appointment today is a “be back”, a man I interviewed last November. He is late 50’s, widowed, retired, has grown children, his goal is a long term relationship, and possibly marriage. His friends encouraged him to call me again and let me help him meet some nice ladies.

 

He said “I am tired of being alone and I am not meeting anyone I am interested in, or attracted to. I thought someone would just walk into my life, but that’s not happening.”

 

He is kind of a country guy, and has a passion for archery. He belongs to a club that has over 600 members. I had no idea that many people were into archery.

He said “Archery teaches you concentration and patience and it is a good, clean sport that seems to attract an incredibly down to earth group of people.” He is more than willing to teach anyone who wants to learn.

 

He loves the outdoors, golfing, concerts, all kinds of music, traveling in his RV, and he is an excellent cook.

He is a strong believer, and a traditional man who would love to find the right lady to spend the rest of his life with. He remembered the ideal relationships I shared with him last time from some of the ladies I thought were a good match for him and he came back with his already finished.

 

In part, he wrote “I’m very slow to anger and comfortable to be around. I’m nonjudgmental, and true to my family and friends. If you really want my opinion, be prepared for the truth because that’s who I am. What you see is what you get. I may not be perfect, but I am perfectly me.”

 

I had his profile and information from last November, and already had his first match arranged when he came back today.

I don’t know if a man his age would consider this a compliment, but I think he is cute, cute, cute!

 

My second appointment is also a “be back”, a lady I interviewed a few weeks ago. She is mid 40’s, educated, divorced, has grade school children, and her long term goal is marriage.

 

She said “I read you are offering 50% off your programs for single moms and I was just about to call you anyways because I got my tax refund.”

Timing is everything!

 

If you are interested in taking advantage of the Mother’s Day special, call now! It ends on Saturday.

 

To be continued……………………..

Please visit my website at www.perfectlymatcheddating.com

 

 

 

 

May 5, 2012

May 7th, 2012, 3:52 pm by

My first appointment is a lady, late 40’s, divorced, educated, grown children, and she is open to marriage, but it is not a requirement.

 

She said “I can be just as committed in a relationship without being married, and it could be very complicated and risky to marry at this stage of life.”

I told her I hear that often from people in her age range and with her “scores”.

She said “What do the scores have to do with it?”

I pointed out that her “Conformity” score and her “Religion” score are both a “3” on a scale of “0” to “10”. She is a nonconformist  and spiritual, as opposed to religious. A man who is compatible with her would also lean towards being nonconforming and not too religious, and more likely to be open to, and perhaps even prefer, a relationship that does not include marriage.

 

After that comment, she was more interested in the scores and wanted to go through the six areas of compatibility and guess her ex-husband’s scores. She guessed him to be NOT easy going, very shy, traditional, not affectionate, religious, and very, very frugal. If she guessed his scores correctly, they would be incompatible in all six areas.

 

She said “I know I am just guessing, but after 20 years of marriage, I am probably not too far off on any of those guesses. Where were you and your test 20 years ago?’

I said “On Northpark Drive, on the corner of Garden of the Gods and Northpark.”

She was surprised that this sort of testing has been used for so long and she was really surprised when I told her the test I use has been around for over 80 years.

 

She is interested in my service but wants to wait until she returns from a trip at the end of this month to join.

She said “While I am gone, start looking for my first match and when I get back, you will be my first call!”

 

 

My second appointment today is a lady, late 30’s, ABS (always been single), her long term goal is marriage and children.

 

She said “I read on your daily diaries that you used to say people are waiting so long to get married and have children that they will be going to their children’s college graduations and getting their AARP card at the same time. But, today you say they are waiting so long to get married and have children that they will be going to their children’s high school graduations and getting their AARP card at the same time.”

 

She started adding it up, if she gets married and has a child in the next two or three years, she will be about 50 when that child graduates from high school.

That thought was enough to inspire her to pick up the phone and call me.

 

She said “I have had two serious relationships that each lasted a couple of years, and I don’t date men unless they have the same long term goal to be married and have a family. I initially thought that potential was there with both of those men, but the relationships ended for other reasons. I realize I don’t have the luxury of spending any more time in a relationship that does not work out. I want to find the right person this time, and I think a man who is serious enough to go to a matchmaker would also be serious about finding the right person.”

 

She has worked for the same company since she graduated from high school, and she has worked her way up to management. She is very financially responsible. She owns her home and has a nice little nest egg put aside with the idea of being a stay-at-home mom when she does have children. She is seriously considering adoption if she does not find the right man in the next few years.

 

She enjoys lots of hiking, cooking, gardening, scrapbooking ,reading, concerts, and traveling. She grew up taking road trips with her parents and siblings and hopes to have that experience with her own family.

She said “Every summer we would take two weeks and go someplace new. We would spend months planning where we would go on our next trip, and everyone’s input was considered. It was so fun and exciting and we really bonded on those trips.”

 

She is very open on her preferences, including height, race and age.

She said “And I don’t care if he DOES get his AARP card at the same time our kid graduates from high school.

 

 

I got a call from a man today who was sitting in a café and a lady walked up to him and said “Are you David?”

He said “No, but I wish I was.” She laughed and explained that she was meeting someone new and he looked like the description that Donna had given her.

Having seen my ads before, he put two and two together and called me. He is coming in for an interview this week.

After 21 years business, I have to say this is one of the most unique ways I have ever received a new lead call.

This will be a great story if they end up being a good match for each other.

 

To be continued………………….

Please visit my website at www.perfectlymatcheddating.com

May 3, 2012

May 5th, 2012, 11:47 am by

My first appointment today is a lady, divorced, educated, mid 30’s, one child, her long term goal is marriage and she can go either way as far as having more children.

She Googled my website a few months ago and has been reading my daily diaries off and on. She decided to take advantage of my 50% off offer for singles moms for Mother’s Day.

 

She said “My daughter spends the summers with her dad in another state and in a couple of weeks she will be gone for two months. Last year I did an online service and it was a total waste of time and money.

I would love to be dating and having some fun this summer and ultimately meet the right man. When I read your offer, I knew the timing was right.”

 

She has been the bread winner in all of her relationships. She is not looking for a man to support her, but she also is not looking to support a man. We agreed that I would match her with men who make at least as much money as she does. She is also very frugal, her finance score on a scale of “0” to “10” is a “4”. I told her I would be matching her with men who are also frugal and they should be financially responsible, just like her.

 

She works out regularly at the gym, runs a couple of times a week, and she recently joined a climbing gym. She loves to cook, enjoys, theater, concerts and going to plays, the Buell Theater in Denver is a favorite. She is an avid reader and the book she is currently reading and loving is The New Earth.

 

When I asked her what was important to her physically, as far a man is concerned she said “Teeth, good teeth are very important to me and I paid a fortune to have my teeth look nice.”

I told her she was not alone, that teeth are the one physically attribute both men and women notice more than anything else.

She is very attracted to men who are bald or shave their heads.

She said “Find me a bald man with a goatee, I love that look!”

 

I look forward to making her summer more exciting and fun and introducing her to some quality men. First, I am going to see if I have a good match who is bald and has a goatee!

 

 

My second appointment is a man I interviewed several months ago when he was recently widowed. He is early 60’s, retired, has grown children, and his long term goal is marriage.

He said “When I met with you before you asked me if I was emotionally available and ready to date and move on with my personal life. I thought I was, but I know now that I wasn’t. Today, I feel like I am ready.

He dated a lady for three months and she was wanting him to marry her.

 

He said “I remember you telling me that because I am so easy going I would have a tendency to stay in relationship twice as long as I should because I will give someone the benefit of the doubt until there is no doubt, and that is exactly what I did in this relationship.”

He did not want to hurt her feelings but he knew she was not someone he would marry.

 

I said “Nobody should be talking about marriage when they have only know each other for three months. You can’t possibly know someone well enough in just three months to make that commitment.”

He said “That’s what I tried to tell her, but she insisted I was the man for her.”

She was very angry when he ended the relationship and he felt badly.

He said “Dating at this stage in my life is complicated and I think I can use your help.”

 

Of course I am happy to help him, and I know I can.

I said “ You were married for almost 40 years, and you have widowed for less than two years. You should just date, have fun, make friends, explore your options.”

He said “OK, I’m ready.”

 

He is so sweet, I think he will be my new pet project and I have lots of matches for him!

 

 

Just a reminder, one more week for my Mother’s Day special, 50% off all my regular programs for single moms…and I guess I should add grandmothers, since one of them has already taken advantage of the offer.

I am going to be on the noon news between 12:30 and 1pm on KRDO, channel 13, on Tuesday to promote my Mother’s Day special. Thank you to my friend and radio rep for the free air time! Free is always good!

 

To be continued……………………

Please visit my website at www.perfectlymatcheddating.com

May 1, 2012

May 3rd, 2012, 1:37 pm by

My first appointment today is a lady, early 50’s, divorced, educated, grown children, self employed, her long term goal is a long term relationship, and she would consider marriage.

 

When she called she said “I read on your daily diary that you are offering 50% off your programs until Mother’s Day for single mom’s. Does it count if the single mom is also a grandmother?”

I said “Well, you have to be a mother to be a grandmother and you are single, so yes, it counts.”

 

However, you would not look at this lady and think “grandmother”. You would think “smokin’ hot.”

I told her I am also a grandmother and my daughter called me recently to say she heard a new term in reference to grandmothers that made her think of me,

“Glam ma”. Of course, we both think that is great.

It is so hard to guess ages anymore, not only because people are staying younger longer, but also because cosmetic “enhancement” has become a part of everyday life. I am not saying that is the case with this lady, and I was not going to presume to ask her.

 

She stays fit by doing mostly Pilates and yoga, and she also runs several times a week.

She said “I have always enjoyed being fit and active and I appreciate a man who is fit and active.”

She has typically dated men who are younger than her, but insists she is not a “cougar”.

She said “First of all, they choose me, I don’t choose them, and I am really not concerned about age as much as someone who is able to keep up with me.”

 

Her family is very important to her and she wants a man who respects and appreciates her family. She said “I have great kids and grandkids and I know how to balance my time between them and a special man in my life, but they are a very important part of my life and I cannot see myself with someone who is not interested in spending some time with me and my family.”

 

She has a great sense of humor, and as the interview progressed, we realized we have a lot in common.

She said “Donna, I want to be YOUR friend!” I laughed and told her the last time a lady said that to me was five years ago and today that lady is one of my best friends.

She is going to join Yvonne and me tomorrow for happy hour and we are talking about doing a hike on Sunday.

Who says you can’t mix business with pleasure? In my business it only allows me to get to know my clients better and, therefore, match them better.

 

 

I had a call today from a lady who said “Do you have any men in your service who have activities that don’t end with “ing?”

I said  “What do you mean “ing”?” She has been dating online and she is so tired of reading about men who go hiking, fishing, running, camping, jogging, biking.

She said “Do you have men who want to just chill, have a nice dinner, take a walk, watch a movie?’

I said “I am sure I do have men who enjoy just chill “ING”. I couldn’t resist!

 

I have young lady coming in tomorrow to take advantage of the Mother’s Day special. She is mid 30’s, ABS (always been single) and has a young child. She sounds sharp as a tack and I am looking forward to meeting her.

 

To be continued………

Please visit my website at www.perfectlymatcheddating.com

 

 

 

 

April 29, 2012

April 30th, 2012, 7:25 am by

To honor all the single moms, I am offering them 50% off all my regularly priced programs at Perfectly Matched until Saturday, May 12th.

 

Call 260-1000 or email me today for your complimentary, no obligation interview!!

Please visit my website at www.perfectlymatcheddating.com

April 28, 2012

April 29th, 2012, 6:34 pm by

My first appointment today is a “be back”, a lady, early 40’s, divorced, educated, self employed, one child in high school, and her long term goal is marriage. I interviewed her one year ago and at that time she was not ready to invest in my service.

She said “I did not feel comfortable that I was serious minded enough to invest what your service cost. I went online and tried two of the better known online dating services, and now I am serious about not wasting any more time!”
It never ceases to amaze me the stories I hear from people who do the online services. There is so much game playing going on that does not happen at Perfectly Matched because I am involved as a third party.

She said “I constantly met men that I term “serial online daters”. The last man I met I did not realize I had met him months before because his entire profile had changed. He had on a different picture, he was a different age, he had a different career, and when we met I remembered him instantly because he was one of the worse choices I had ever made. He laughed and tried to make a big joke out of it, even though he knew when we had met before and I was not interested.”

He said “I thought maybe you would feel differently since you are still looking.” He told her his secret for successful online dating.
He said “You have to take yourself off for a few days and then when you come back on, you are listed as “new, today”, otherwise you continue to go further and further down the list. You buy a three month membership, and when it expires you sign up for another three months and you are “new” again. You change things up, and see what gets the most response.”

He openly admitted that in the ten years he has done online dating he has lied about his height, his age, his occupation, his income, and he has even used his brother’s picture because “we look alike but he takes a better picture.”

He said “When I started this, I listed my height as 5’7 (which is his true height), today, I say 5’10 because height is what matters to ladies. I have kept my age the same because I want to date younger women. Ladies want to meet professionals, not blue collar guys, so I say I am a “quality manager” (he is a janitor for a school). And, when I  changed my income from 30K to 90K, my “hits” went up overnight.”

She said “That did it for me. I went home and deleted everything.”

A few days later, she saw my ad at the Ritz and heard my radio ad on 92.9. It felt like a “sign” to reconsider my service. She wanted to know if one of the men I spoke to her about a year ago was still available, but he is not. However, I have several new men who have become clients since I interviewed her who appear to be good matches.

She said “All total, the money I spent was almost as much as your service, but nothing compensates for the time I wasted, and the frustration and disappointment I experienced. I am now serious about meeting the right man and I seriously trust you can do a better job.”

Online dating is so good for my business…..

To be continued…..

Please visit my website at www.perfectlymatcheddating.com

April 26, 2012

April 27th, 2012, 3:12 pm by

My first appointment today is a man, early 50’s, divorced, educated, grown children, his long term goal is a serious, committed relationship, and he would consider marriage. He is the man who rescheduled his appointment from last Saturday because he “had to play golf”.

 

He said “It is not a show stopper if a lady does not play golf. I dated a lady for several years who did not golf but she loved to drive the cart and be a caddie for me, that was a ton of fun! I just don’t want someone to have a problem with me playing golf.”

I said “How often do you golf?”

He said “This time of year I usually go two or three times a week and there are plenty of other things I enjoy as well;  hiking, motorcycling, tennis, concerts, spectator sports, traveling, and I am very open to trying things I have not done before.”

He has always thought it would be fun to rent a nice RV, and take a two or three week road trip with someone special.

 

He said “I came to see you because I really want my next relationship to be the one that lasts til death do us part.”

He has some land in the mountains that he plans to build a house on when he retires. He would like to share that project with a lady so it would be a combination of what both of them want in a home they would hopefully live in for the rest of their lives.

 

He said “But more than that, I have had three significant relationships since I have been divorced and I am ready to meet the right lady and settle down. Obviously, I have not managed to find her on my own and I like the idea of working with a Matchmaker. I am guessing you know a little more about this than I do and I keep reading and hearing about Matchmakers.”

 

He was intrigued by the profile test and what his scores told me about him.

He said “I look at this graph with my scores on it and I can think about the relationships I have had and tell you exactly which areas where we were probably incompatible.”

He pointed to the finance score and said “The last lady I dated was probably a “2”.”

I said “So, she was extremely budget minded?”

He said “NO! Just the opposite. She spent money like there was no tomorrow.”

I said “Then she would be a “10”.”

He asked What would be your description of a “10”?

I said “Someone who is not controlled by price tags, if they want it, they buy it. Their back is usually against the wall financially because they spend more than they make. They very often have a lot of debt, they live hand to mouth, they don’t plan or save for the future and they are usually looking for someone to bail them out.”

He said “That’s her!”

I said “I have only interviewed two or three people in 25 years who have been a “10” in finance.”

He said “And lucky me, I found one by chance.”

 

He is a very likeable guy, loves his family, has a great sense of humor, enjoys having fun, is easy to look at, and I can’t wait to start matching him!”

 

To be continued……..

Please visit my website at www.perfectlymatcheddating.com

April 24, 2012

April 25th, 2012, 5:37 pm by

My first appointment today is a lady, late 40’s, divorced, educated, grown children, and her long term goal is marriage. She has been on a couple of the online services, obviously with no success, or she would not be meeting with me. Her complaints about online services are the same as the ones I usually hear, “time consuming, ineffective, the men did not look like their pictures, they lived all over the country, etc.” She was referred to me by a current client who is very happy with the ladies I have introduced to him.

 

She was married very young and stayed married for almost 30 years. Since her marriage ended she had a long distance relationship that lasted about a year. It ended for the same reason most long distant relationships end, neither of them is willing, or able to move. I told her that she should date, have fun and explore her options, since her basis of comparison for men in her entire life is two. She agreed but she knows eventually she would like to be married again.

 

She enjoys baseball, and plays softball, hiking, dancing, football, but she more of a Rockies fan than a Bronco fan. She likes to travel and would definitely like to travel with someone special.

 

At the end of the interview she said she needed to “think about it”. I never hard sell so I asked her how long she needed to think about it.

She said “Two weeks.” Most people will say a couple of days, or a week.

I said “What is going to change in the two weeks you take to think about it?”

She mentioned a fellow that she has known for awhile and said she has given him some hints and indications that she was interested in him, but he has not responded.

I said “Then he’s not interested, so let’s take him off the list.”

 

This gives me an opportunity to comment to anyone who is giving hints, indications, or signals to someone they want to be interested in them, but they get no response…..it’s because they are not interested, at least not in the way you want them to be… so, let it go, and quit beating your head against a brick wall.

 

She is a very sweet lady and I have some good matches for her. I hope she will let me help her find someone who wants her as much as she wants him.

 

 

My second appointment is a lady, mid 20’s, ABS (always been single), she has a young child and her long term goal is marriage and more children. She looks like a model, and, in fact, she has modeled. Before we meet, she told me on the phone that she takes good care of herself and wants a man who also takes care of himself. When I asked her how important physical attraction is to her on a scale of “0” to “10”, she said “9” or “10”.

 

She is very focused for her age. We agreed that being a mom certainly inspired her to be more focused.

She said “I am here because I am very serious about finding the right man, getting married and having more children. She found me on the internet when she Googled “dating”. She also called one of the national services in Denver and when she asked them if they had clients in Colorado Springs the lady she was talking with said “Our clients are all over Colorado.”

She said “I told her I wanted to meet men in Colorado Springs and she said she could not help me. She was abrupt and rude and really turned me off. I felt like I was talking to someone in a call center.”

I said “You probably were.”

 

I don’t usually show pictures in the interview but when someone tells me their expectation for physical attraction is “9” or “10”, I want to see if we are on the same page because I think I have a good eye for picking levels of attraction. After I had all of her information, including a young man in this age range who is comfortable meeting someone who has a young child, I had three possibilities. In my opinion, they are all very nice looking men. She looked at their pictures and immediately said “No”.

She said “I’m sorry, I am so picky.”

I said “You can be picky because you are beautiful, but that leaves us with no options.”

She said “I really want to work with you to help me find the right man!”

I said “Let’s do this, I will write about you on my daily diary and talk about the man you want to meet and see if anyone responds.”

 

So, here it is….she wants to meet, marry and have children with a man who is 26 to 35, at least 5’11, Caucasian  or Hispanic, a non smoker, social drinker only, kids are OK as long as he wants more, doesn’t have long hair, prefers clean shaven and is a “10” physically.

Sound like you? Call me at 260-1000, or email me. It could change your life!

 

To be continued………………..

Please visit my website at www.perfectlymatcheddating.com

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